{La Advice - Kids}

Whether they are scattering rose petals down the aisle or carry the rings, little ones will surely add a touch of tenderness to your ceremony. If your wedding party includes young flower girls and ring bearers, it's helpful to express to them the importance of their role, and rehearse with them in advance (to minimize the pressure on the day). 

If the child's parents are members of your bridal party, we suggest that you ask their parents to arrange for someone that the child knows to remain at the back of the ceremony site, keeping the child calm before it is his/her turn to walk down the aisle.  That person may also need to be responsible for entertaining the child during the ceremony.   

At the reception, to make them feel an integral part of the event, maybe you could share a dance with them.

In those instances when other children are also part of your attending guests, it’d be best that an area is created for them at the venue. It will keep them occupied and allow their parents and other adult guests to enjoy the party without a worry.

If it’s possible, hire a caregiver/nanny to keep an eye on and assist them. Never ask one of the wedding guests to do this, unless they volunteer first.

A good way to entertain them is to make goody bags containing age appropriate materials i.e. coloring books, crayons or travel size board games.

Make sure that your caterer will provide a kids’ menu that is more accessible than the adult menu.  There aren't many 4-year-olds that will eat prime rib... and hungry kids are cranky kids.  

Lastly, remember that having children be part of your day means there's only so much you can control. Their personality and cuteness will surely be what everyone will remember. 

Cheers!
LaVERE